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17 years, and I keep learning

This past Sunday DH and I celebrated 17 years of wedded bliss!! 

In typical military fashion we celebrated the milestone apart from one another.  He is currently at his new assignment, and I am trying to prepare a home to show, and sell. 

The crazy part is, I was really not bothered that we were apart, I am sure we would have preferred to spend the day smooching, and remembering the day 17 years ago TOGETHER. 

But, like most military couples, we have learned that Christmas can be celebrated in July, Valentines Day is everyday, and heck sometimes it is ok not having a witness to turning yet another year older.   

We will celebrate ten-fold when we are reunited…

I am amazed that the lessons in this life never cease. 

I am thankful for this life I lead. 

My Father recently came down to help me prepare my home for the real estate market, and initially my stubborn, independent spirit was insulted.  "I can do this, I do not need help".  It was my fellow military spouses that reminded me that, "everyone KNOWS you can do it, but accept help!"  I am glad I did, for his assistance made the process about 2 weeks further along, that it would have been.   Painting the exterior and interior of a home is a tedious process indeed. 

Thank you Dad!

I am now on the cusp of getting ready to show my home, and I am glad, that you all reminded me that there is no shame in accepting help. 

About Rachelle

Rachelle began her Military Spouse career when her future husband proposed to her in a letter during Desert Shield. Mail took over a month to arrive back then, and they only had three phone calls with each other in the ten months they were separated. They were married at a small ceremony a week after he returned home. Rachelle's husband moved her to Ft. Bragg, NC, all of their combined possessions filling her small, two-door car. In 1992, they left active duty and moved back to their home state where she went to nursing school and he joined the Army National Guard as a traditional Soldier as he went to school. In 1999, Rachelle's husband was offered a full-time National Guard position in Arkansas, where they lived for eight years.

In 2002, their son was born (MFO Deployment) and in 2003, their daughter was born (OIF2). In 2008, they moved back to their home state to live close to family. Rachelle has been an active contributor with SpouseBUZZ since 2005. She currently works full-time at a physician’s office, and is active with her church and school's PTO. Her son has recently been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, a subject that she is exhaustingly studying and learning to work with day-by-day. In 2010, Rachelle's mother-in-law moved in with the family, and they added a German shorthaired pointer named "Poncho" to the tribe as well. Rachelle enjoys spending as much "down time" with her family as possible - usually something outdoors or movie nights. Her favorite foods are sushi, steak, chocolate, and coffee. Her special skills include being an awesome cook, identifying odd accents by state or country, having an incredible sense of smell (almost bloodhound-like), and watching people at airports during long, unexpected layovers.

Comments

  1. Semper Fi Wife says:

    Glad to hear that your renovations are almost complete.
    As to the still learning part, I think we're all works in progress, right?

  2. wifeunit says:

    Exactly Semper Fi Wife!
    Accepting help is hard. But it is great to let other people in.
    Good luck with the sale!

  3. navy wife says:

    We just celebrated our 7 year anniversary this week and my husband is also deployed! It is also hard for me to accepct help from others, but with three small children sometimes i have no choice. Thanks for your story, it showed me that everyone does need a little help once in awhile and that i should not feel bad for accepcting it!

  4. Anna says:

    Great article ! Hugs from a former Army wife who moved 14 times in 10 years …..