39

Can You Describe Your Military Life In Six Words?

Only six words to describe my entire military life?  Try: AIRFORCE BRAT. NAVY WIFE. ARMY MOM.  OK, that’s really seven words. And kinda boring.

Six more words: WAITING. WAITING. WAITING. WAITING. WAITING. JOY!

That’s a little better, but is it isn’t quite what I am looking for …

This week USAA is asking its members to take a moment to think about what matters most, write their life stories in just six words, then share it.  Those who share their story may have it featured in an upcoming issue of USAA Magazine or on usaa.com.

I love this exercise. The first time it was used was reportedly in the 1920s. Ernest Hemmingway was challenged to write an entire short story using only six words. He wrote: “For sale. Baby shoes. Never worn.”

Smith magazine used the idea to launch a monthly feature where they asked famous people to write their autobiography or their love stories in only six words. Six word stories included:

“Not always perfect, but so worthwhile.”

“Hog the covers, I don’t mind.”

“He’s dumb but lifts heavy stuff.”

How would you describe your military life in six words?  How would your service member describe his?  Click here to find out what I submitted to USAA and get more ideas.

About Jacey Eckhart

Jacey Eckhart is the Director of Spouse and Family Programs for Military.com. Since 1996, Eckhart’s take on military families has been featured in her syndicated column, her book The Homefront Club, and her award winning CDs These Boots and I Married a Spartan?? Most recently she has been featured as a military family subject matter expert on NBC Dateline, CBS morning news, CNN, NPR and the New York Times. Eckhart is an Air Force brat, a Navy wife and an Army mom.

Comments

  1. S2 HH6 says:

    Empowered Journey, Continually updating the OpOrder….

  2. Taffy says:

    When are you finally coming home.

  3. ARTY_GUY says:

    I CAN'T WAIT TO GET OUT!

  4. 16017 says:

    Anticipation, Excitement, Hard Work, Sacrifice, Disappointment.

  5. Eagle Keeper says:

    God, Freedom, Country, Honor, Respect, Peace

  6. Amy_Bushatz says:

    Not my story, but …

    "His boots came home without him.":

  7. Heather says:

    Looking forward to retirement very soon!

  8. Jon Wilson says:

    (From a disabled vet) – I wish I could have stayed.

  9. Kevin Love says:

    Really Can't wait for Boot Camp!

  10. TiredArmyWife says:

    The WORST mistake of my LIFE!

    • Heather says:

      I am really sorry, that's too bad. It is true the military isn't for everyone, and being a spouse of a military member isn't for everyone either. When my husband and I got married I was still active duty. He was planning on ETSing just weeks after we married and go back to school while I supported us for the next few years. BUT, it didn't work out that way. He decided he should stay in a little longer. Well, in time a baby came along and I got out, he stayed in. I never even thought about the repercussions of being an army wife to be honest. It was his job and he was supporting us. He eventually became a Warrant Officer and now with over 20 years in (and three deployments behind us) we are on the 3 year down hill to retirement. I can't say it has been the most wonderful life all the time, but we have weathered many storms in the 17 years we have been married and I am very proud of the accomplishments and sacrifices my husband has made for us, his family. And I am proud of us as a couple for not giving up when things got rough, we have stuck it out and that's more then I can say for most of our friends. It can be a rewarding experience.

      • Michele says:

        Sorry also to TiredArmyWife….but like Heather says, it is not a life for everyone. It is hard work, but also rewarding work. Many times I have been discouraged, upset, and totally fed up but have managed to stick it out and I am SO glad I did! It has been a lot of ups and downs for being a military spouse but also for just being a spouse-we have made it through 27 years come this Friday with married life and 26 years as my husband being an enlisted man in the Air Force….I wouldn't trade a day for the experience or life….it has been the best time of my life and I would do it all over again if had the choice. We have sacrificed a lot, but have also enjoyed a lot….many deployments, remotes, etc….but we have made it and will be retiring in the next month! Loved seeing all the different places and sights….6 words for me would have to be: LOVE, HONOR, FREEDOM, THANKFUL, PRIDE, LIFE!

    • Lisa says:

      I too am really tired.

  11. mel says:

    Life is good, I am thankful.

  12. Francis says:

    sacrifice, loneliness, frustration, dissappointment, anger, failure.

  13. bob says:

    been there, done that, got pride

  14. Sara B. says:

    Hey Babe, hurry up and wait!

  15. tere says:

    I'm married but without a husband.

  16. Stephanie says:

    Wouldn’t change a thing about it

  17. Robert Atkinson says:

    It was just a job and I enjoyed the 14 years I put in until they retired me I was looking stay in for 30 years.

  18. patty says:

    it is perfect in every way!

  19. R E Hill says:

    5 tenders 1 carrier happy days

  20. A. Harris says:

    Never get attached to one place.

  21. M.M says:

    Security, Family, Support, Hardships, Appreciation, Excitement

  22. Frias says:

    Optimistic adventures throughout our army life.

  23. keisha says:

    You're home! nooooo! you're leaving again.

  24. MYK says:

    Free college degree , six figure job .

    put that in your juice box and suck it

  25. armybaby says:

    army brat turned army wife.

  26. Hawkswifey says:

    Single Mom, Possible Widower… My Thoughts

  27. Charley says:

    Best time in my life

  28. Coyotelibris says:

    I didn't come with his seabag.

  29. woodchuck says:

    leave all better than it was … situations, units and people … edited from leave everything and everyone better than you found them

  30. r peluso says:

    Decision, plan, work, result, secure, happy
    .

  31. Marcy says:

    Lonliness, anger, strength, proud, madly-inlove