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Poll: Are You Afraid of Getting Out?

When it comes to the sequester, you might not care about cuts to shipbuilding and whether or not some Air Force guy you don’t know gets his tuition assistance.

But we all have our twinges about how Sequestration will affect our particular servicemember or us personally.

Maybe we are right to worry.  Cuts to personnel seem to be in the offing everywhere. At a recent conference, General Odierno, the Army’s Chief of Staff, said that the Army was committed to cutting active duty troop strength from 570,000 to 490,000.  Under Sequestration, Odierno thought that up to 200,000 active duty members could be cut.

Navy Adm. William H. McRaven told the Senate Armed Services Committee that the Sequester would even include paring down recruiting efforts for several years for Special Forces.

Cuts are being discussed for just about everyone — from to the number of generals and admirals we have to the early retirement of mid-level and senior enlisted to the size of entering classes at military academies.

So if you do have those worrisome twinges keeping you up at night, what are they?  What is your biggest fear surrounding getting out of the military? Take the poll and check out the results below.

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About Amy Bushatz

Amy is the managing editor of Military.com’s spouse and family blog SpouseBuzz.com. A journalist by trade, Amy also covers spouse and family news for Military.com where she is an Associate Editor. An Army wife and mother of two, Amy has been featured as a subject matter expert on NPR and in the New York Times. Follow her on twitter @amybushatz.

Comments

  1. Rosalee says:

    They will be told 'you have nothing to offer us in private industry"
    That is their ploy………..'hire a vet, hire experience' only counts if it is the feds hiring
    and then you had better hope it is an open job otherwise they hire from within
    Nobody in private industry cares………..they can think only of hardware……not leadership,
    not timeliness, nothing that makes for a good employee……..

    • Mike says:

      That's not all together true. If you have a military job with skills that readily transfer over to a civilian job and the company is hiring, they'll hire you if you can sell yourself to them. I know because I got a dam good job. I have the skills and qualifications that transferred-over. These companies benefit when they hire vets, because the government essentially credits them by paying your first year's salary or something of that nature. You'd be surprised how many companies are hiring-vet. First-off they know you're loyal and you'll come to work every day, you're disciplined and you've already proven that you'll sacrifice yourself or time and you have many life skills and experiences. Another thing to think about is you have to be positive! Some of these companies do hiring blitzes like the (U.S. Postal Service) where people have worked there for 25+ years and there's 10-year gaps between new hires. I'd go back to school if I had too, but you can't be discourages, I know this is a tough economy due in part to The Baby Boomers' losing a lot of their 401k saving over the last five years (2008 financial market melt down), but once they retire and jobless rate drops below 6.5 the economy should pick back up when creating 450 million jobs per month with a GDP of 3.5 or better. Remember it always looks bleak before the storm clouds lift, and thing will change for the better we just have to work our way through this rough-patch!

      • Guest says:

        What do the "threat" "neutralizers" do?

      • Chrystine says:

        Many baby boomers aren't retiring because they took a huge hit in the stock market and their houses lost a lot of value. Also,many companies are not replacing those who retire. Foundation'st 'll that rosy.

    • Brad says:

      If you get out and think you have nothing to offer private industry, then think again. Even grunts have marketable skills including working well under pressure and leadership. These are hugely sought after in the civilian market and hard to prove you have. If you truly have "nothing to offer" then perhaps you didn't use your time wisely. I have served in the Marine Corps for 10 years now and time and time again I see young Marines waste their time. You can tell the ones who are going to make it, whether in the Marine Corps or civilian life because they spend their free time doing college course work, or becoming more proficient in their MOS, or doing something productive instead of drinking their paychecks away, spending all weekend playing the newest Call of Duty: Modern Warfare, or going to the strip club, or buying ridiculous cars that cost as much to insure every month as the payment in the car simply because it looks cool. The military offers so many programs and opportunities that the civilian population does not benefit from. Young people simply need to take advantage of it. As for actually getting a job; much of the job market hires privately from within or through word of mouth so networking is very important. However, because of the internet and technology, people don't communicate face to face anymore like we used to. Everything is done anonymously or from behind a screen. If you don't work on communication and social skills, and I don't mean posting regularly on someone blog or profile, then when it comes time for an interview you are going to be awkward and uncomfortable. Someone else more memorable and sociable is going to blow your chances out of the water. But to say you have nothing to offer in private industry is simply not true unless you make it true.

  2. Levon Wilson says:

    our only hope is a republican president in 2016, cause even though i am in the reserves i still wish i was active duty. and even though i still rather keep my time going in the reserves. I think the civilian world is just a smoke an fantasy about hiring vets. The civilian world lacks so much the Military has a code of conduct of integrity, values and disciple and a I watch your back you watch mines. And now i see the civilian pay is just a Amusement at times. Even though coming in the military I started off with Lousey Pay but i could move up rapid with any course of action weather college, promotion in rank or deployments or better yet every year we got a 3% or better raise.. Now my civilian job is a joke. full of douche bag co workers. I really wish and pray I can get back in Active duty..

    • Mike says:

      Man you've got to change your attitude! Republican or Democratic President really doesn't matter, its the best person for the job. You got the job, If I'm hearing you right, you miss the camaraderie the loyalty among service members. I understand and I feel the same way. I have a family and that's what pulled me through, I was mad at the civilian's because they'd back stab each other, they weren't trust worth and they were real moody and their attitudes changed liked the weather. Well I'm not there for that so I closed ranks did my job raised a family and enjoy the military friends I have…free your mind!

  3. sabrinacking says:

    We count the days to retirement. My husband has a countdown tracker on his phone…the thing that worries us about getting out: the negative sentiment toward the military as a lavish welfare class being stirred up by media chicken hawks. Will that affect retirement pay and benefits? Will it affect the VA and it's services for veterans? Will that sentiment make becoming a part of a community after retirement even more difficult than it already is? Somedays we think the only place we can retire peacefully is out of the country all together…that's so terribly sad. But it's true. The powers that be are pitting the majority against the majority. The working class against the military. As things get tougher, history has proven…people like a scapegoat. We fear only one thing: rejection, from the very country we ALL, our entire family have given our lives to.

    • Amy_Bushatz says:

      …. or moochers ;-)

      • sabrinacking says:

        Yep…that's me…I am Queen of the Moochers, I wrote their Manifesto. The Military Moochers Manifesto, if you can say it three times fast…we might let you join…snort.

    • Steven says:

      I honestly hope not , but in truth nobody knows

    • peaceandhope says:

      you cant mov overseas we are all stuck here because no foreign country will take us specifically because we are us nationales…that being sad our bank accts are property of us govt so not ank will do business with us unless we give up citizenship. GOD is our only hope and salvation. Pray for us and our nation as more people wake up

    • THOMAS ANDREWS says:

      I retired in1991 and since then we were OK till DOD got this wonderful idea to make PRIME CARE WITH IN 40 MILES OF THE BASES OR PRIME PROVIDERS.WE MOVED TO AN AREA WHERE WE WERE TOLD ALL WE HAD TO DO WAS SIGN A WAIVER AND WE COULD STAY ON PRIME[WRONG ANSWER] WE THEN BOUGHT A HOME ONLY TO FIND OUT 2 MONTHS LATER THAT WE WERE OUT OF RANGE FOR TRI-WEST PRIME. No matter how many tri-west reps we talked to we always got different answers.We plan to sell our home now and try to find one in a PRIME CARE AREA.

  4. conradswims says:

    I can't take any more of this! When I was released from active duty and doing four and a half years of my military obligation there was nothing, No help, Nada. Just don't let the door hit you in the A**. I went out and found my own job and new line of work. Quit expecting to be taken care of. It's your life. Get on with it. GEEEEEEEZZZZZ!

  5. conradswims says:

    "Counting the days to retirement" Read what you just wrote. Live life. Find work you love. Never stay in a job for security. You are your own security. You, your attitude and your abilities. I looked around and saw people doing a job they hated just because the were afraid of the unknown. Go for it! Life is for living!

    • sabrinacking says:

      I understand your sentiment, but at 18.5 years you do not get the option of just getting out…thus we are "counting the days".

  6. IraqVet says:

    You really have to love what you do to want to stay in now…

  7. Mike says:

    Sabrinacking, first off-its nobodies $%% business but you and your husbands! I think I understand your anxiety, but I think you're over doing it-sweetie! God and family first all others step aside! What you have to remember or I don't know if you've had enough time to keep up with the current economy, but there's 47.7 Million Americans on food stamps, that's a big jump over 45% since five years ago. I don't mean to alarm you in any way, but I thing most American have more to worry about that one family being on public assistance, besides its nobodies business but your families…I'm sure you all will do fine we just have to wait out this bad economy then things should look better!

    • sabrinacking says:

      I'd like to believe that is true. I'd like to believe people are smarter than to buy into the David Woods' of the worlds BS. But after reading comments on those sorts of articles for the past year…we really are getting disjointed. It's terribly soul sucking to think that even a single person in this country…let alone an under current of well written well spoken connected people think that we have just been living high on the hog the past 18 odd years. That the past 12 years in particular have been a cake walk…it makes us both so angry we could spontaneously combust.

  8. Mike says:

    Hello every one,

    I'm retired from the The U.S. Army with 22-years, I think I can relate to some of your fears and anxiety that you might have about your transition from military to civilian life! First of all, you have to be very positive and have a plan, because as the old saying goes, no one plans to fail, they fail to plan! ATAP or Army Transition assistance program helped me transition smoothly into my dream job, and the same can happen for you! You have to come together as a family and support one another and pull together-trust me your spouse has his or her work cut out for them and there's no need for drama! I don't know if you all have been keeping up with current events in the economy over the last five-years or during the Bush-years, but a lot has transpired…we had 9/11, The Dot.com or Tech Stock bubble burst around 1997– 2000 and the stock market crashed, then the stock markets recovered just in time for the housing bubble to burst around 2007–2012
    and some housing markets are still working though that mess, but the stock market managed to rebound thanks to Chairman of the Federal Reserve, "Ben Bernanke and his QE 1,2,3.. or Quantitative easing which is print money and here we are to-date in the economy and stock market. Some may ask what does this have to do with me and my transition. I'm not trying to alarm any one, I'm just trying to get you up to speed that's all, because I had to figure this much out on my own and I wish some one was there to help me understand the economy! Hopefully we won't be in this funk for long, but now's the time that you want to spend on resume's, interview skills, job-leads or networking as they call-it! I'd also consider going back to school if need be or taking any job until the right one comes along. Like I said. I'm not trying to alarm any one, but there's 47.7 Million Americans on food stamps, that's a big jump over 45% since five years. If you need public assistance its nobodies business but your families you've paid into the system and its there if you need-it…I'm sure you all will do fine we just have to wait out this bad economy then things should get better! There was a time when I was unemployed and I would seat at home watching people go to work in the morning, and I'd be frustrated, I wasn't mad at them I was mad because I had no where to go and that was a big motivator for me…stay positive and hang in there, also stay in touch with family and military friends!

  9. ron moreno says:

    I served 5 years Army , 3 years active , 2 years national guard . last year served 1992 , Ive been self employed for 19 years ( building Contractor in Los Angeles ) . My fellow veterans I would hire you before any civilian , just dont brag around your co-workers your a vet, alot of them resent it . I know a vet has alot to offer , cool under pressure , avid planners .I laughed at business partners in the past when everything was going wrong ,I just asked myself huhhh, no charging enemy , im not on a suicide mission , im going home to a hot shower and a cold beer , this is a joke ! You have many options , start a business . MY EXPERIENCE WITH VETERANS , THE MILITARY ALOT OF TIMES PUSHED YOU TO REACH A GOAL . NOW YOUR ON YOUR OWN , YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE DISCIPLINE TO SET YOUR OWN GOALS AND TO MOVE FORWARD . THAT IS WHY ALOT OF THEM FALL APART IN THE CIVILIAN WORLD ,BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT PUSHED FROM THE MILITARY ANYMORE. Just act very humble you served , the civilians will eat you alive , I very rarely tell people im a vet ( especially in California these liberals )

    • Heather says:

      I hear what you are saying, and I agree for the most part! But, I am one of those liberals from California! ;) I served for 10 years myself, three active, 7 guard. It was my VERY liberal parents from California (i.e. hippies in the 60's/70's) who ENCOURAGED me to join the army back in the early 90's, so I am not sure why people equate being liberal with being anti-military. That is a bit of an insult really. My husband, btw, is in his 22 year in the army now with no plans to retire anytime soon. He enjoys his job (though I wouldn't say we eat, breath and crap the army like some do) and it affords a decent life for us.

    • conradswims says:

      Good Post. Plus when a person serves in the Military they learn to be a work on time. Same with me. I been a Contractor for over 40 years. I tell people all the time to start their own business. Invest in them selves.

  10. ron moreno says:

    i served with 25th infantry , e-4 M60 gunner

  11. Vic says:

    Stay in if you only skills are combat arms. Too many deployments = not a likely candidate for employment in the civilian world. Everybody in DoD talks a good game for hiring Vets but if you havn't acquire skills or education easily transferable to the civilian world you are at a disadvantage. Having serve 22 years in the Army taught me the less you talk about military expierences (i.e. War stories) the better off you are. Not all is doom and gloom but ou must face certain realities in the civilian job maket. I heard a comment from a former Seal team member that his biggest fear was the civilian world.

  12. Chrystine says:

    Retirees, I will share a few things.Never tell anyone how much you pay for your Tricare as a retiree, you will be seen as the anti-Christ. Also, don't tell anyone how much you're retirement is. We know we earned it, the majority of civilians I know resent the neck out of us. And definitely don't let anyone know if you get any VA disability since it is tax free. People will think you are welfare receipients, in my experience.

  13. tom says:

    A total change in one's life is always tough. I am now retired for a second time (Army 21 years,civilian 25 years) and both times many of the same worries came up. Planning is the key to everything. Try living on your retirement income prior to the big day. If you are not retiring, have a network or plan to "help" if the worse happens and your world crashes. Nothing could prepare me for the lost of the feeling of cohesion and belonging to a military unit as I was dumped into the real world. No one really cares what you did yesterday only how you can make money for them today. Many will be jealous of what you have earned so don't offer amounts and keep any benefits to yourself. Be the first one to show up in the morning and the last one to leave at night, be honest , show what made you a winner in the military.

  14. "T" Liepman says:

    So many people are upside down in their mortgage. If you cannot at least break even selling, of course you will have to keep your property as a rental for some time period. The alternatives are, foreclosure or a short sale, which can take many months with no real guarantees and also damages your credit. Short sales are definately not a quick fix.
    Make your property the best it can be, hire an agent to market it for rent and screen rental applicants. A good agent can help you write a state lease that will protect you. If you do not have someone in the area to monitor and take care of problems when they arise, hire a good managemnt company. They are your eyes and ears and can resolve issues in a timely manner.
    This way you get your mortgage covered or hopefully close to it and your credit stays intact.
    Best of luck to all of you from a former AF spouse of 27 years. Thanks to you and your families for your service!

  15. We all have fears. While military life is by no means easy, there is some comfort with a steady check on the 1st and 15th and decent benefits. That being said, military life isn't for anyone. Before you decide to leave the military it would be in your best interest to have a heart to heart discussion with your spouse, so you can get their input. It also helps to have a game plan and some type of emergency fund. If you don't have either of those two things in place, I say stay in until you do get them straightened out. Just my two cents.

  16. I think it's human nature to fear the unknown. During my time in, I most of the people I talked with were scared to get out, even though they weren't happy. For many folks, the "take home" pay is much higher in the military than in the outside world. Plus, the benefits are pretty good. Sure, it isn't all "perfect" but it's a good deal with most people.

    When you compare the government pay and benefits to the private sector you will see some big differences. Ultimately, only you can decide what is best for you and your family.

    Chuck