Holiday expectations

Toad has a good post about expectations this holiday season down below. And he's right. People's expectations are so high. And we buy into it. At Princess Trouble's school, the expectation exists … [Read more...]



I cannot join Andi today in taking the day off.  Darn it.  Tis the Season.  Christmas has caught me completely off guard for the past 7 years here down South. It cannot be Christmas, … [Read more...]


My Husband, AirForceGuy

Yes, yes, I know it's become rather obvious that despite some differences in the ability to tolerate filth and a definite tendency towards procrastination (not mine) that causes some rough moments, I … [Read more...]


What Are You Doing For Yourself Today?

A reminder that today is "Do Something For Yourself Day." If you haven't done something for yourself, make a plan. If you have, tell us what you did. As for me, I'm puttering around the … [Read more...]


Changing the Expectations?

We've all heard about the multiple horror stories of the "expected gratuity" and in a leading digest, one of the writers goes into hilarious detail about how everyone from the garbage men to the paper … [Read more...]


A Change in SBTR Programming

Everyone is so busy with the Holiday Season, so we've decided to temporarily drop our Sunday evening Pajama Party shows on SBTR. We'll continue to be on-air every Thursday evening at 9:00 EST, and … [Read more...]


Deep breaths. Deeeeeep breaths…..

This was my internal mantra while on the 2nd panel at SBL3 in Fayetteville.  After about 2 sentences, I started crying and surprised the heck out of myself.  I mean, DH was wounded 2 1/2 … [Read more...]



You still have a few days left to enter our "What's Your Story" contest. Details here. And don't forget to send your nominations in for the SpouseBUZZ Smooch, which will debut in January. … [Read more...]


Dealing With Fear

At SpouseBUZZ LIVE Ft. Bragg/Pope, we talked about anticipatory grief. I told the story about how I planned the knock at the door and my husband's funeral. You can read about that here, and AWTM's … [Read more...]


We Are Family

If you haven't caught last night's SpouseBUZZ Radio show with Ashley, you really MUST catch it in the archives here. Our military family community was out in force, helping one of our newest members … [Read more...]



I recieved this, last night.  The Armed forces foundation, can not find anyone who wants a free house in theRaleigh/Ft Bragg area that is wounded. Can you put out the word that we arelooking for … [Read more...]


Guilty Pleasures

I confess that I'm in kind of a funk right now.  Not helpful considering the things I'm committed to doing this month.  Not helpful at all but I think everyone has those days, right? I have … [Read more...]


SpouseBuzz Live 3…Remains of the Day

I can't believe almost a week has passed since SpouseBuzz LIVE took place in Fayetteville.  It's also hard to believe how many times a man can say, "Let's just do it and then we can … [Read more...]


I Love This Product

We all get a little stressed on occasion.  Often times we do not do as much to take care of ourselves as we could or should. That is why I love this product! … [Read more...]


Let’s Help a Lady Out

Tonight on SpouseBUZZ Radio we'll be doing things just a little different - because the show will be all about YOU calling in to give our guest advice. We'll say hello to Ashley, whose soldier is just … [Read more...]


My Dear Husband will never make General, Reason 4,375

I will caveat this with my DH would make a great General. (Cough* hint cough*) I on the other hand, will not make a good General's wife. Where do I begin? This will certainly be a post in which there … [Read more...]


Blogging SpouseBUZZ LIVE

I thought it might be a good idea to introduce the Fayetteville spouses to some of the non-SpouseBUZZ bloggers who attended SpouseBUZZ LIVE. And a reminder, if you decide to start a blog, please let … [Read more...]


I Ask You, What is Worse?

What's worse? Having to do The Kelvin, or not having the opportunity to do The Kelvin when The Kelvin should have been done? If you don't know what The Kelvin is, click here before you read on or this … [Read more...]